Driving Kids Lazy

May 23rd, 2013 No Comments Tags: , , , , , , , , ,

Yet another report card is out by Active Healthy Kids Canada issuing a D- for overall physical activity levels for kids – ug. Although there are many contributors to this crummy grade, the dependency on driving kids even short distances was highlighted. Think about it.

A survey revealed that 58% of parents walked to school when they were kids yet only 28% of their own kids do the same – what gives?! All you need really is to help kids accumulate 60 measly minutes to get-a-move-on each day. Five minutes here, fifteen minutes there can add up when you think about the various to-ing and fro-ing you do chauffeuring kids short distances. In time they could accumulate the minimum activity requirement if you turned the beat around creating a new norm to hoof it or ride from point “A” to “B”.

Do you shower your kids with new shoes that never seem to get worn out? How about scooters, skateboards, roller blades, bicycles and more that have treads that never get a chance to wear? It’s time for a new test drive of any or all of these play-things. Make a pact to use them. While you’re at it, blow the cobwebs off your cross trainers and lace ‘em up and get outside and play.

It’s a perfect time of year to start a “movement movement” sneaking in “interval training” of 15 minutes of accumulated activity to add up to an hour a day. Our bodies were built to move. Let’s not make the movie Wall-ee come true.

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Go BONKERS Over Four Berry Bonanza Nut Crisp

May 20th, 2013 No Comments Tags: ,

I made this yummy dessert for my company on the long weekend. An ideal way to end a special celebratory  meal to cheer a belated Mother’s Day, double birthday and anniversary. A perfect way to get and stay in the good books through spring and summer :-)

Ingredients

Filling
2 cups strawberries, washed, cored and quartered
4 cups frozen, thawed blueberries
1/2 tsp vanilla
1/2 cup sugar
1/4 cup flour
1/2 tsp cinnamon
1/2 tsp finely grated orange peel

Topping
2/3 cup large-flake oats
1/3 cup flour
1/3 cup brown sugar
1/3 cup chopped nuts (almonds, or walnuts &/or pecans)
1/2 tsp cinnamon
1/2 tsp nutmeg
1/4 cup butter, melted

Instructions

Filling
Preheat oven to 350F. Add all fruit to an 8 inch square baking dish and combine evenly. Drizzle vanilla over top. In a bowl, stir sugar, flour, cinnamon and peel and combine evenly. Sprinkle over the fruit and coat evenly. Even the surface by gently pressing down.

Topping
Combine all dry ingredients in a medium bowl. Drizzle melted butter in and combine well. Sprinkle evenly over fruit.

Bake in the oven for 55 to 65 minutes until the fruit is bubbling and topping is browned. Serve warm with vanilla iced cream.

Commentary
I had some frozen berries including strawberries, raspberries, blueberries and blackberries that gave me the inspiration to bake, so I made a double batch. MmmmMmmm talk about easy makin’ lovin’ spoonfuls served with vanilla ice cream by Cinnamon Girl herself. When it comes out of the oven bubbling it’s like sex in a pan! It was smiles all around. After all, all foods fit…… Celebrate good times, COME ON!

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Handling Long Weekend Diet Land-mines, Enjoy!

May 17th, 2013 No Comments

Ahhhh it’s that time of year again when the long weekends are upon us and the living is easy. Life according to those beer commercials is simple, just take that jump off the rock into the lake. Ya right. A lot of planning goes into these weekends and if you want to come out the other side relatively unscathed where your eating is concerned, planning is essential. Here are some words of wisdom to help you maximize your enjoyment and minimize post weekend gains. Take stock.

Be Realistic – in making your goals for the long weekend. If you honestly think you’ll be nibbling on Wasa crackers, cherries and yoghurt for the next few days give your head a shake. When the Dove bars find their way down to the dock, you might throw all caution to the wind and blow your unrealistic plans out your ear. It’s all about finding balance in partaking is some of the indulgences without totally indulgence.

Be Prepared – just like a Girl Guides without the hideous uniform! If you’re heading away with a group, take some control by bringing food you enjoy, that still fit into your regimen. If you’re too extreme, the saboteurs will be all over you like white on rice.

Find Your Center – by finding some quiet time. I can’t emphasize enough the importance of finding solitude amongst all the noise and flurry of activity even if you find yourself at a quiet lake. I don’t care where you find it – in the woods, in the out-house, in the car, in the lake or in your room. Doing this helps you plan, cool your head, regroup and relax.

Think Before you Pour – when happy hour begins. For some, every hour is happy hour, it would seem. It’s nice to partake in the fun, but remember drinks, especially alcohol have calories too. Say hands down to bottoms up occasionally and work in some bubbly….mineral water that is.

Take a Jump in the Lake – and do some activities YOU enjoy. Are you the one who does all the planning for everyone?? It’s your long weekend too. I’m sure unless you have little kiddies under foot your group can work out the party hearty without your 2 cents worth day in and day out. How on earth do they survive without you when they’re at school, at work, etc?? Trust me, they just do. Relinquish some of your power and take the reigns to enjoy yourself.

Keep it Real – with the activities you plan to partake in, whether it’s rock climbing, water skiing, hiking, etc. If you have a sedentary job like me scaling a rock might be a bit ambitious. You might end up with an injury or two which’ll set you 3 steps back on your exercise regimen. Just like landing on a snake on the Snakes and Ladders game of old. Trust me. For many of us those glory days are over doing barefoot water skiing, one handed. Keep your head and ego in check so you don’t have to crawl out of bed the next morning.

Tune in to Your Cues – with hunger and satiety occasionally. Ok it’ll probably be the last thing on your mind, but thinking about this once in a while might save you from polishing off the last of the Krispy Creams.

Get in the Drivers Seat – especially if you’re over 21 years old. If you blame others for your over indulgences think again. If it’s your hand going to your mouth with a fork attached, chances are you might be guilty as charged. This is often the case when emotional eating is involved by reverting back to some other place in time mentally. Eating too much won’t spite anyone else, but yourself. Take some extra quiet time to find your center.

You want your long weekend to begin and end with a big Whoooo-Hooo not a big Booo-Hooo with your stomach sticking out a country mile and your rings not fitting because you’re retaining too much water. Planning ahead makes good sense. You’ll be that much further ahead once the weekend’s over. Have a super time!

Sneak a peak of Chapter 9 in Skinny on Slim for healthy and stealthy tips to help you through life’s curveballs and challenges for this and every long weekend. Find my spring special on the book here:

http://www.smashwords.com/books/view/300877 (available in multiple formats)
Also available on i-Tunes, Kobo/Chapters, Barnes & Noble, Diesel and Sony
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Duchess of Fork Weighs In

May 15th, 2013 No Comments

I found myself in London recently and realized eating and activity efforts can get hi-jinxed as fast as you can say Piccadilly Circus if you don’t have your wits about you! There’s a lot to take in from the sights to the culture, but you can get caught in an eating vortex as the Duchess of Fork with the cuisine by spending less energy out than in if you’re not mindful.

Afternoon tea sounds so civilized and benign. The presentation of tiered china oozing with innocent sandwiches, scones and clotted cream plus sweeties is a treat on a rainy afternoon. You’ll need to walk up and down The Thames to balance that energy equation though, as you add some pasties, fish ‘n chips and more. There’ll be a high exchange rate to be paid by the pound or kilo when you get home if you don’t trade off when you arrive.

It’s a great walking city to venture from the London Bridge and Tower, to Westminster Abbey and Big Ben, to Buckingham Palace then Trafalgar Square back to Covent Garden and over to St. Paul’s Cathedral. That’ll get your booty in shape and work off some of those sweeties. Yes all of the food options are grand but who wants to ruin it all with too treats?

Set your eating mindset to stun temporarily and focus on other joys of travelling not only the culinary ones. Try helping out the local economy and get lost in retail heaven perhaps. From the music to the creative couture to friendly staff – who needs to eat when you’re in the middle of a shopping stupor? Nay nay I say!

London by the pound can get you right in the pocket book AND the hip pockets if you don’t have your eating-thinking cap on. It doesn’t have to be that way though if you put some thought into it right out of the gate….. at the airport.

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Awareness is Bliss – Mirror Mirror on the Wall….

May 13th, 2013 No Comments Tags: , , ,

Mirror, mirror on the wall, who’s the most truthful one of all?

For some gals, there are details they just don’t want to get up close and personal with, like that reality-checking tool: the blessed mirror. You know what I mean. Facing that side profile when you exhale, letting it all hang out and actually looking without darting out of view. How about getting a glimpse of your cellulite on those upper thighs? Yank your shirt down over a rising muffin top. Get a frontal view of that behind.

Then there’s the effect of gravity that brings you down, in more ways than one. The heightened awareness that comes with this reality check can actually be life changing.

I try to avoid the mirror sometimes in the same way I avoid making eye contact with someone I’m trying to dodge. Then my realization awakens my conscience and I need to face facts.

Every so often, I stop cold in front of the mirror like the prelude to a Western movie quick-draw. Then it’s a slow-motion 90-degree turn while I let go of my abs – and exhale. I’m usually caught red-handed, perhaps due to a slip up on not doing my callisthenic routine, now painfully obvious after seeing my loosened abs in the relaxed position from the side view. “Sheriff, she’s guilty as charged for letting it all hang out.” But what if I hadn’t looked in the mirror? Would I escape the grasp of the long arm of the law?

It’s been said that ignorance is bliss. The problem is that it rode in from the same town as avoidance and denial. When you ride this trio of doom for long, you’re heading for trouble, out-gunned in the world of health and wellness.

Our internal robot can switch into reverse once it arrives and settles down in the la la land of ignorance. You know, letting those die-hard quirks creep back into your repertoire – eating too quickly, not focusing on how hungry or full you really are, choosing serving sizes as big as your head and skipping exercise when life gets busy. Soon, even your white 10-gallon hat doesn’t fit any more.

Want to heighten your awareness and get to the problem of your Rubik’s Cube-type dilemma? Check out my new book Skinny on Slim. Find it here:

http://www.smashwords.com/books/view/300877 (available in multiple formats)

It’s also available on i-Tunes, Kobo/Chapters, Barnes & Noble, Diesel and Sony.

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Mother of a Job….

May 10th, 2013 2 Comments Tags: , , ,

It’s no easy feat being a Mother. I have read many times that it’s the hardest job in the world. In fact, I’m sure of it. It should require multiple PhD’s in social studies, psychology, accounting, nursing and the like. The role is definitely 24/7 for your entire life, on little sleep and lots of prayers plus a few rosaries thrown in. AMEN with hopefully a few alleluia’s.

It requires stealth hearing capabilities from far distances; a vexing glare that CAN and WILL stop you in your tracks; the ability to give orders through clenched teeth so the receiver can actually comprehend what is being said. You need complex strategizing skills using reverse psychology that works on a foxy 2 year old AND your spouse simultaneously.

I don’t know if anybody’s ever tried to write a job description for “the Mother role” because it is the Mother of ALL roles! Where on earth would you start? You certainly couldn’t announce it using only 140 characters on Twitter. You couldn’t take out an ad in the New York Times either. It would surely be too long and cost WAYYYY to much money.

I look to this Mother’s Day with warmth, joy and  love in my heart because I am certainly “one of the lucky ones” because I have been blessed with MY Mom. My Mom:

  • Meant “no” when she said “no” and never caved, ever….
  • Made sure we knew how to do stuff around the house so we wouldn’t end up like useless knobs
  • Sent us to lessons to learn all kinds of skills even if we weren’t all that proficient and she made us go outside and play every single day
  • Didn’t allow us to watch the boob tube endlessly, even though we wanted to…well before anyone knew what “screen time” was
  • Engaged us in necessary life-skills of grocery shopping, meal prep, making our own lunch, laundry, ironing, dishes and the like
  • Didn’t try to be our friend, she had her own…and we needed to behave around them
  • Taught us the value of a dollar and encouraged us to learn how to save money….and a LOT more.

Research tells us over and over that parents have a vital role to play with the health and well being of their children. I surely know that I have been blessed because of the many important lessons and life skills bestowed on me because of the tough love and the soft love of my Mother. I think Oprah should give my Mom a TV show on OWN featuring her with her wooden spoon teaching the world how to set limits with kids. Hey, it worked for me and my sisters….pretty much….

How fortunate I am to be one of the lucky ones receiving enduring love and support from my Mom through the ages. I am truly thankful for her consistent love and steady hand at the helm all of my life…..still……

Thank you Mom – I love you!

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Dressing the Part! Dressing for Dieting Success

May 8th, 2013 No Comments Tags: , , , , ,

You look maaarvelous darling! Why is it when we look great we feel great, when we feel great we “act” great and simply put we ARE great?? I conducted a survey of women who lost weight successfully (aka “successful losers”) with my good friend and colleague Cara Rosenbloom a few years back. This is what some of our respondents said about on the topic:

  • “On days where I am having a hard time I try to look better to inspire myself”
  • “If I dress a bit nicer and put more effort into my appearance, I feel better about myself, which in turn helps me to stick with my workout and diet routine.”
  • “When I look good I think twice about stuffing myself.”
  • “When I feel good about myself I take extra care of what I eat. It’s a positive cycle!”

So how difficult is it to do this day after day??

  • Eating from the inside out – you eat better when you feel better about yourself, period
  • Dressing for zest – focus in on your everyday clothes and colours that make you look and feel your best
  • Hair apparent – if looking in the mirror makes you think of Halloween get thee to the salon!
  • Know your assets – accentuate the positive, just like the song says
  • Get real and stay real – 50 is the new 50 period, deal with it. Dress your age.
  • Dressing on all cylinders – take a few extra minutes each evening to decide what to wear tomorrow. This will help you jump start your day and feel your best from the outset.

There are useful books and television shows on this topic to assist you on this quest. It really is worth the effort and it doesn’t have to take loads of time. Isn’t it better to wear the one outfit everyday that makes you feel wonderful rather than a whole closet full of clothes that make you feel like a frump? You decide.

This is one stealthy approach to help you stay motivated when you are making the journey to Slim Town.

There are numerous healthy and stealthy suggestion in Skinny on Slim. Find it here:

http://www.smashwords.com/books/view/300877 (available in multiple formats)

It’s also available on i-Tunes, Kobo/Chapters, Barnes & Noble, Diesel and Sony.

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On the Move…

May 5th, 2013 No Comments Tags: , , , , , ,

Ahhh yes, Orb wins the Kentucky Derby. Everyone’s in a race these days. There are competitions of competitions to go faster, longer, stronger and more. This approach to double down and feel the burn when exercising often turns we normal folk off it altogether.

For those of us who are jaded by even hearing the work “exercise” take heart. Let’s take the pressure off and focus on activity, any activity – you know, putting one foot in front of the other to just get a move on. It’s a perfect time of year to start and turn the beat around your routine and find ways to get outside and play. Our bodies were meant to move. Start by any sort to – walk, run, saunter, dance, shimmy, samba, ride, swim, skateboard, roller blade, play, garden, shuffle. Got it? Start with one or two 15-minute intervals each day, a new form of interval training without the burn – a healthy and stealthy approach.

There doesn’t need to be a time trial connected to the moves you choose. Take the pressure off and work in various ways to get a move on so in time you’ll look forward to it and begin finding ways to work those new moves in. This photo was taken in Kelowna, BC while on a peaceful stroll at dusk.

There are numerous healthy and stealthy suggestion in my book Skinny on Slim. Find it here:

http://www.smashwords.com/books/view/300877 (Use code UD78D to get 50% off until May 8, 2013)

It’s also available on i-Tunes, Kobo/Chapters, Barnes & Noble, Diesel and Sony.

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Turn a Food Court Jester into a Brown Bagger says Skinny on Slim

May 3rd, 2013 No Comments

Some people have longer commutes to work and grab breakfast and/or lunch on the go routinely. Whether you are going to a drive thru or food court there are strategies to help you make better choices.

Studies show that taste is king while convenience is queen. These are two factors on food choice for those time-starved souls. Some people hit the snooze button way too often shorting them that 6-9 minutes needed to make a lunch. That’s all the time you need to turn a brown-bagger into a food-court jester. Think about it. The lunch I make myself only takes 2-3 minutes.

It’s worth doing some food fact surfing and high number turfing before you go. You can find the data on the Internet ahead of time and decide which outlets to frequent. The old adage “oh my, it’s a treat” doesn’t apply to the frequent flyer of the food court. You know who you are. You want to eat economically and still feel satisfied heading back to work in the afternoon. Think about choosing three to four of the food groups in your meal. If you overdo it, you and Dilbert will be caught sleeping in your cubicle mid afternoon as your eating satisfaction tanks.

Review my handy food court facts to file away before you blow the button off your trousers choosing the super-sized and super-unwise options. You need to keep your head on straight and be prepared. If the old adage “you are what you eat” is true, then what are you made of?

Now back to that home-made lunch option – you can spend your entire break enjoying it in a quiet place and get one or two 15-minute intervals of strolling in to decompress, as oppose to going to the food court, standing in a line-up, ordering, waiting until it’s ready, finding a seat, then using the meager 6 to 9 minutes left to eat it. Another reason why they call it “fast food” perhaps, you have little time left on your break to woof it down. You do the math. Bringing lunch from home makes a load of sense and could save you some too (cents that is).

There are numerous healthy and stealthy suggestion in Skinny on Slim. Find it here:

http://www.smashwords.com/books/view/300877 (Use code UD78D to get 50% off until May 8, 2013)

It’s also available on i-Tunes, Kobo/Chapters, Barnes & Noble, Diesel and Sony.

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Trade-off Turnaround – Do the Dairy Maiden Switch says SOS

May 1st, 2013 No Comments

When some people try to lose weight, they sometimes become too overzealous and cut out entire food groups. Like the comedian John Pinnette exclaims “nay, nay I say!” One food group some people put on the chopping block is dairy. Cutting this out is like shooting yourself in the food twice like Samity Sam on Bugs Bunny. There is so much nutrient richness in this one food group it’s simply astounding. Don’t do it to yourself and think this through.

If you want to save some calories try turning the beat around on the percent fat in the dairy products you choose. This way you’ll get all of the goodness without the extra calories – a wham bam grand slam! Here’s a trade-off scenario to consider:

You decide you’re willing to try lower fat milk to save a few calories.

Here’s the scenario: You routinely drink homogenized milk meeting your three serving quota of three servings of 250 mL or 8 ounces each day.

You decide: Let me switch to skim milk and drink the same about each day to save some calories. You train your palate to love skim instead of homo. Nice going!

->The homo milk provided 438 calories/day.

->The changed routine to skim totals only 264 calories/day of nutrient richness.

->This one change can result in an 18-pound weight loss in a year. Changing the fat in the dairy products you choose really makes a big difference while still providing stellar nutrition.

There are numerous healthy and stealthy suggestions and trade-off scenarios in Skinny on Slim. Find it here:

http://www.smashwords.com/books/view/300877 (Use code UD78D to get 50% off until May 8, 2013)

It’s also available on i-Tunes, Kobo/Chapters, Barnes & Noble, Diesel and Sony.

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